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Mbigenze nte? Umugabo wanjye arangiza vuba akantera ipfa bitewe no kwikinisha. Ese ubu burwayi yabwivuriza he?

By On:7 December 2019
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Bakunzi ba Imirasire.com muraho, iyo dukoze imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umugabo wanjye ahita arangiza mu masegonda atageze kuri atanu. Iyo habayeho gukaresanya hari igihe andangiriza mu biganza atarashyiramo akansigira ipfa n’ubushake bukabije bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ibi ahanini nkeka ko abiterwa no kwikinisha. Nubwo atigeze abimbwira njye namwifatiye inshuro 3 zose ari kwikinisha. Njya nshaka kwikinisha ariko ngatinya ingaruka zabyo nk’uko nagiye mbibwirwa na benshi. Ndabagisha inama ni hehe mwandangira umuntu wamvurira umugabo ibintu byo kwikinisha ndetse no kurangiza vuba. Mumfashe ndabinginze kuko mbabaye.

Kwikinisha ni igikorwa gishobora gutera izindi ndwara

Umuntu ukora icyi gikorwa cyo kwikinisha, aba afite ibyago byo kurwara indwara zitandukanye, ndetse n’izindi ngaruka ashobora guhura nazo mu buzima bwe bwa buri munsi.

Kwikinisha ni igikorwa gikunze gukorwa na bamwe mu rubyiruko cyangwa bamwe mu bantu bakuze, yaba abagabo cyangwa abagore. Abakora iki gikorwa bemeza ko bibagabanyiriza irari ry’imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Amakuru dukesha urubuga aufeminin.com, avuga ko Umuntu ukora icyi gikorwa cyo kwikinisha, aba afite ibyago byo kurwara indwara zitandukanye, ndetse n’izindi ngaruka ashobora guhura nazo mu buzima bwe bwa buri munsi.

Kwikinisha ni igikorwa gikunze gukorwa na bamwe mu rubyiruko cyangwa bamwe mu bantu bakuze, yaba abagabo cyangwa abagore. Abakora iki gikorwa bemeza ko bibagabanyiriza irari ry’imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Amakuru dukesha urubuga aufeminin.com, avuga ko ubushakashatsi bwerekanye ko mu barwayi 1,000 b’igituntu, abagera kuri 414 muribo bagitewe no kwikinisha. Ibi kandi ngo bishobora no kuba intandaro yo kurwara umutima, impyiko, umwijima ni zindi ndwara zishobora kubahitana harimo no kwangirika k’umuyoboro utwara amaraso mu gitsina.

Bamwe mu bakora iki gikorwa cyo kwikinisha , ngo bagera igihe bakumva bashaka gukora imibonano nabo bahuje igitsina, kuko baba batinya ikindi gitsina.

Kwikinisha bitera kandi imikorere y’ibyiyumvo by’igitsina idasanzwe bimwe bita mu ririmi rw’igifaransa (hypersensibilité sexuelle), ku buryo umuntu ukunda kwikinisha agera aho yumva yakora imibonano buri kanya. Agera n’aho kandi yihagarika inkari zikaba zasohoka zikurikiwe n’amasohoro, ndetse n’amasohoro akagera aho ajya asohoka bimutunguye.

Kwikinisha bitera kandi kugabanuka kw’ibyishimo mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina hagati y’umugore n’umugabo, bikagabanya ingufu z’imikorere y’ubwonko umuntu agatangira kwibagirwa bidasanzwe, kuba umubiri utakwihagaraho igihe haje indwara, nko kuribwa n’umutwe udakira n’ibibazo by’amaso, umuntu agatangira kutabona neza.

Bitera kandi gusaza kw’umwijima bitewe n’ingufu nyinshi uba ukoresha igihe urimo ukora bimwe mu bigize amaraso, bigira uruhare mu gukora amasohoro.

Uwo munaniro udashira w’umwijima ushobora gutera gusaza imburagihe, umuntu akaba yanakurizamo indwara yawo n’izindi ngaruka nko kubura ubushake bwo kurya, umunaniro n’ubunebwe bidasanzwe, kurakazwa n’ubusa ku tuntu tudasobanutse, kugira amabara y’umuhondo mu maso no kuribwa n’impyiko.

Bishobora kandi kuba intandaro y’indwara y’umutima n’amaraso ajya mu gitsina akagenda aba make, ndetse umuntu akajya yumva yishinja icyaha (sentiment de culpabilité) bikaba byamutera ipfunwe no kutajya aho abandi bari.

Ubushakashatsi bwerekanye kandi ko mu barwayi 124 b’indwara zo mu mutwe, 24 muri bo na bo bazitewe no kwikinisha. Tutibagiwe ikoreshwa ry’ibiyobyabwenge no kuba igitsina gabo cyafata indi shusho.

Umuntu ukora iki gikorwa cyo kwikinisha, aba afite ibyago byinshi byo guhura n’uburwayi butandukanye mu buzima bwe, birimo no kuba yashaka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina buri kanya, kurangiza vuba ku mugabo umugore akagira ikibazo cyo kuba atakwifuza gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n;umugabo akumva yahitamo kwikinisha.

Urashaka gucika ku kwikinisha burundu? Dore uko wabigenza

Benshi bajya bibaza bakanaterwa impungenge n’ikibazo cyo kwikinisha gikunze kuba ingeso, bibaza n’icyo bakora ngo babicikeho burundu..

Abantu benshi ariko bakomeje kwibaza bati ese umuntu yakora iki ngo agabanye cyangwa areke burundu kwikinisha?
Benshi bajya bibaza bakanaterwa impungenge n’ikibazo cyo kwikinisha gikunze kuba ingeso, bibaza n’icyo bakora ngo babicikeho burundu. Nibyo tugiye kugaruka ho.
Uru rubuga rwa internet twifashishije rugaragaza ko bishoboka rwose ko umuntu yabireka burundu.

Intambwe ya mbere ni ukugerageza kwibuza kubitekerezaho cyane mu gihe wumva bikujemo mu rwego rwo kugabanya inshuro wikinishaga.

Ku bijyanye n’imirire nabyo, ngo umuntu agomba kugerageza cyane kurya ibikomoka kuri soya kenshi, kandi akagerageza kwirinda kunwa ikawa nyinshi, kuko ikitwa caffeine dusanga mu ikawa gituma amaraso yihuta bigatera ubushake bwo gukora imibonano bwa hato na hato.

Abagabo bagomba kandi kwirinda kuryagagura. Aha ngo wakwirinda akenshi kurya utuntu tw’ubunyobwa ndetse n’ibihwagari, ahubwo ngo ku meza ugakunda gufungura ibikomoka ku mafi n’imboga.

Aha kandi umuntu agomba kugerageza kurya gake inyama zitukura z’inka cyangwa ihene, byanarimba ukazireka burundu.
Byaba byiza abakunda icyo kunywa bahisemo kujya binywera imitobe ikomoka ku mbuto.

Umuntu kandi ngo akwiye kunagerageza kunywa amazi menshi kuko agira umumaro muri byinshi harimo n’ikorwa ry’intanga

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