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Ibi byakwereka ko umuntu agukunda ariko yarabuze uko abikubwira

Burya muri kamere ya muntu, umukobwa ni umuntu udakunze kugaragaza amarangamutima ye mu bijyanye n’urukundo. Kuko ushobora kwibaza niba umukobwa ashobora kugira urukundo cyangwa niba bitabaho nyamara akenshi ni nabo bakunda cyane ariko kugirango babitobore bavuge biba ikibazo.

Nubona rero ibimenyetso ku mukobwa wiyumvamo ntuzace ku ruhande uzahite umukura mu buribwe bw’urukundo maze nawe umukunde:

A) I nseko;
Umukobwa yagukunze ntiyifuza kukubona ubabaye narimwe, bityo bigatuma yumva yakubwira amagambo agushimisha, kugira ngo akubone useka. Usanga kandi iyo yinjiye aho uri, murebana akamwenyura, ndetse kuburyo iyo munaganira acishamo agaseka ku tuntu tumwe na tumwe mubamuganira, ngo akwereke ko akwitayeho cyane.

B)Akunda kukureba cyane;
Amaso burya ni igice cy’umubiri kidasanzwe, kuko gitanga ubutumwa bwinshi mu bwonko bw’umuntu. Mu gihe rero umukobwa azaba yagukunze azahora ashaka kukwitegereza, cyane cyane nkiyo umunyuzeho, iyo muri kumwe muganira, iyo mwahuriye nko mu birori, cyangwa ahandi hose hahuza abantu benshi. Cyane cyane nushaka kumureba uzabona ko muzajya mukunda guhuza amaso kenshi, agasa nkuwijijisha akareba hirya.

C)Ibimenyetso by’umubiri;
Ibimenyetso by’umubiri bikunda kuvuga ibintu byinshi, ariko si abantu benshi bakunze kubisobanukirwa. Nubona umukobwa muhuye cyangwa yinjiye ahantu uri akakwicira akajisho atavuze, akagukubita agashyi, akagukora mu mugongo, akakwicara iruhande, n’ibindi byinshi, ujye umenya ko hari ikintu kidasanzwe arimo kukwereka.

D)Akunda kukuvuga;
Mu byukuri nta mukobwa utagira ikigare (group), iyo bari kumwe rero bakunda kuganira ibintu byinshi, cyane cyane ntibashobora gutandukana batavuze ku ngingo y’abasore, baba incuti zabo cyangwa abo bakorana. Iyo bateruye icyo kiganiro rero, usanga umukobwa wagupfuye ahora agutanga ho ingero muri bagenzi be, icyo bavuze cyose akagisanisha nawe.

E)Azagusaba ko musohokana;
Ushobora kuba wari inshuti n’umukobwa bisanzwe, mukorana , mwigana, cyangwa se hari ibindi bintubyinshi muhuriramo, byazagera aho, ukumva atangiye kujya agusaba ko mwasohoka mwenyine . mu byukuri aba ashaka ko hari icyo mwazaganiraho mwiherereye mutari muri rwaserera.

F)Azakoresha uko ashoboye kugirango aguhore iruhande;
Burya iyo ukunda umuntu ubawunva mwahora muri kumwe cyane. Umukobwa rero iyo yakwikundiye, akoresha ibishoboka byose akajya aba ari aho nawe ukunda kujya, kandi mukaza kubonana. Urugero, nkiyo ukunda kujya kubyina, kureba umupira se, n’ahandi, usanga akunda kuhaza, kandi abacuti be bataha agasigarana nawe, mukavugana ho amagambo make gusa, akitahira.

G)Azakubwira ko akunda imico yawe;
Umukobwa nakubwira ko yikundira imico yawe, mbese nk’ukuntu ugenda, useka, ijwi, ubwitonzi, kwambara se, n’utundi tuntu twinshi tukwerekeyeho, azaba akubwiye ko agukunda. Nibwo buryo bwe azaba akoresheje kugira ngo akwereke ko yagukunze.

H) Akwereka ko akwitayeho buri gihe;
Burya umukobwa wagukunze, aba ashaka kukwereka ko ariwe muntu ukwitayeho kurusha abandi. Nkiyo murikumwe na bagenzi banyu, usanga akunganira mu bintu byose uvuga, bakubaza nk’ikibazo nawe akagushyigikira, wavuga ikintu akakunganira, kandi akagerageza kwereka abandi ko uvuze ibintu bifite akamaro.

I) Akunda kukugira Inama z’ubuzima;
Niba umukobwa yarakubengutse uzajya wumva arimo kukugira inama z’ubuzima, akwereka icyo wakora ngo witeze imbere n’icyo utagomba gukora. Ibi kandi nta mwanya munini bizamutwara, kuko azabikubwira igihe muzaba muganira.

J) Aragufuhira;
Gufuha ni ibintu bigirwa na benshi, cyane cyane iyo bakundana, kandi usanga umuntu ufuhira undi, aba amukunda koko by’ukuri. Iyo umukobwa rero mumaze kumenyerana, muganira bisanzwe, ushobora kutamenya ko yagukunze. Ariko nubona akunda kukubaza niba umukobwa runaka ari inshuti yawe, cyangwa akakubaza icyo upanga n’umukobwa yigeze kubabonana, uzamenye ko burya atabikunda, ahubwo aba ashaka ko ari we wenyine wakikundira.

Yanditswe na Niyirora Christian.

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